There I was, suffering a cough, unwrapping a lozenge, and in small print on the wrapper were messages … messages to inspire one to feel better: “Get back in the game,” “Don’t give up on yourself,” “You’ll survive” … all little pep talks! Wow!

All around us, you can find symbols encouraging us to be our best. The most iconic is the smiley face, catapulted to international fame by French journalist Franklin Loufrani in 1972, from the original Harvey Ball in the 1960s. Then the more subtle notes toward a more cohesive community, such as property owners gracing their yards with gardens, cities and county buildings with music events and showing artwork done by citizens to be enjoyed by all.

In the last eight years, we have had to endure long-term political signs trashing our highways, boasting the message of hate and discontent to the point of flags that use the f**** word, alongside that of our American president! Somehow, our messaging is to harm or hinder communities, rather than encouraging citizens to work together. Rather than to encourage us all to want the best for all our citizens, we are at odds with each other … fearing for safe havens of home, school, or work.

I don’t think there is a lozenge to help us.

The new iconic symbols have become fouled and shameless messages of boastful hate. Young men and women who are enraptured with this messaging, is this your legacy to your family name, your children’s children, your community, your country? What do you see when you look in a mirror?

Look outside for things that can lift you, choose friends and groups that will help you be the best you can be.

Try to choose love over hate, joy over shame … be genuinely Happy.

MARGARET KUTZERA,

Harrisville