Jean Kowalski

Family engagement isn’t just a buzzword–it’s one of the strongest predictors of student success. When families are actively involved in learning, children perform better academically, develop stronger social-emotional skills, and build confidence and a sense of belonging. Still, for many families and educators, engagement can feel overwhelming. Where do you start? What really makes a difference?

The good news is that meaningful engagement doesn’t have to be complicated. It isn’t about attending every meeting or volunteering for every event. True engagement is about connection–intentional moments that show children and educators that families are valued partners in learning.

For families, engagement can be as simple as asking your child about one thing they learned or enjoyed at school that day. It might mean celebrating a small success, like solving a tricky math problem, or recognizing effort, such as practicing reading at home. These moments build confidence, reinforce the importance of learning, and open the door to deeper conversations about school and life.

Small actions often have big results. When a parent takes just a couple of minutes to ask, “What’s one thing you learned today?” children begin to reflect on their learning. Over time, these conversations become a natural part of daily routines, strengthening communication and curiosity.

For educators, engagement can be just as simple–and just as powerful. A brief, personal note recognizing effort, a quick check-in call, or a newsletter with practical tips for learning at home sends a clear message: we are partners in your child’s success. Research consistently shows that regular, positive communication between families and schools increases student motivation, achievement, and overall well-being.

Getting started doesn’t require a big plan. This month, try choosing one small action to build connection:

– Ask your child to teach you something they learned today

– Send a note or message celebrating a student’s effort or progress

– Attend one school event–virtually or in person–and show interest in your child’s experience

These small steps add up. Over time, consistent moments of connection create trust, understanding, and collaboration. They form a network of support that children can rely on–both at home and at school.

Family engagement is also about listening. Schools may offer resources, but families need to feel heard and understood. Taking time to listen to questions, concerns, or everyday stories strengthens relationships and makes future conversations–especially challenging ones–easier and more productive. When families feel heard, trust grows. When educators listen, they gain valuable insight into students’ needs.

It’s also important to set realistic expectations. Families are busy. Educators are busy. Engagement isn’t about perfection–it’s about consistency and care. Even small gestures, like checking in on one assignment or sharing a positive note, can create a ripple effect that strengthens partnership and support.

Engagement looks different for every family. For some, it may be helping with homework. For others, it could mean attending events, volunteering, or simply showing enthusiasm for learning. There is no one-size-fits-all approach. Engagement works best when it fits a family’s schedule, strengths, and comfort level–and when it feels supportive rather than stressful.

For educators, fostering engagement means creating welcoming and accessible opportunities to connect. Clear communication, flexible options for involvement, and genuine appreciation for each family’s efforts go a long way in building trust.

The long-term impact of family engagement is powerful. When families and educators work together, children develop confidence, resilience, and a love of learning–skills that extend far beyond the classroom. The consistent connection between home and school sends a simple but powerful message: you matter, and your learning matters.

As you look ahead, consider how engagement can become part of your routine rather than a one-time event. Start small. Focus on connection. Notice the impact–not just on children, but on the culture of trust between families and schools.

This month, I challenge families and educators to take one action–big or small–to strengthen connection. A conversation, a note, an email, or attending an event can make a lasting difference. Together, we can create school communities where every child feels supported and every family feels valued.

About the author

Jean Kowalski is a family engagement specialist with years of experience supporting schools and organizations in building strong partnerships with families. Passionate about practical strategies that create real impact, Jean’s mission is to use practical, impactful strategies to help families and educators work together so every student can succeed.