The holiday season is coming and after last year's experience with our granddaughter I vowed to change my way of giving. After three months of waiting for my check to be cashed I called and found out that she thought she had cashed it and finally found it behind her nightstand. Apparently she really didn't need the money. We all have children and grandchildren that we wonder what to buy them for Christmas. They have everything they need and if you ask them they can't even give you a suggestion.